Relationship???

àRelationship in general means the way in which two or more people are connected, or the state of being connected.

àRelationships should never be a constant battle, but it should always be a consistent effort.

àA relationship is like a HOUSE. When a light bulb burns out in that house you don’t go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

The light bulbs are the problems you face in a relationship and when you solve them, the house is a better place to live in.

àLove must fuel everything you do in your relationship.

àThe key points which stabilize a relationship are:

     #1 Good Communication.

     #2 Caring and sensitivity to each other.

     #3 Both of them are willing to admit mistakes.

     #4 See the relationship as an opportunity to give (EMOTIONAL DEPOSIT).

     #5 Both of them support each other.

     #6 Both of them are open to each other.

àDo not treat the other person in the relationship as a possession. Respect their individuality; give them space to grow and transform. Also encourage their own self-discovery.

àHaving a relationship with someone is having an “EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT” with them.

So, every relationship in life which you (the viewer) enjoy, there are constant transactions-(Deposits and Withdrawals) in terms of “EMOTION”.

The Emotions that can be deposited are – Love, Care, Empathy, Faith, Freedom, Gratitude, Hope, Joy and Respect.

Your responsibility is to ensure that- your Deposits are more than your withdrawals at all times.

The negative EMOTIONS which should NEVER be used in the EMOTIONAL BANK are:

Anger, Pride, Apathy, Conceit, Despair, Doubt, Envy, Greed and Hate.

These Emotions are huge WITHDRAWALS from the Emotional Bank.

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