Relationship???

àRelationship in general means the way in which two or more people are connected, or the state of being connected.

àRelationships should never be a constant battle, but it should always be a consistent effort.

àA relationship is like a HOUSE. When a light bulb burns out in that house you don’t go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

The light bulbs are the problems you face in a relationship and when you solve them, the house is a better place to live in.

àLove must fuel everything you do in your relationship.

àThe key points which stabilize a relationship are:

     #1 Good Communication.

     #2 Caring and sensitivity to each other.

     #3 Both of them are willing to admit mistakes.

     #4 See the relationship as an opportunity to give (EMOTIONAL DEPOSIT).

     #5 Both of them support each other.

     #6 Both of them are open to each other.

àDo not treat the other person in the relationship as a possession. Respect their individuality; give them space to grow and transform. Also encourage their own self-discovery.

àHaving a relationship with someone is having an “EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT” with them.

So, every relationship in life which you (the viewer) enjoy, there are constant transactions-(Deposits and Withdrawals) in terms of “EMOTION”.

The Emotions that can be deposited are – Love, Care, Empathy, Faith, Freedom, Gratitude, Hope, Joy and Respect.

Your responsibility is to ensure that- your Deposits are more than your withdrawals at all times.

The negative EMOTIONS which should NEVER be used in the EMOTIONAL BANK are:

Anger, Pride, Apathy, Conceit, Despair, Doubt, Envy, Greed and Hate.

These Emotions are huge WITHDRAWALS from the Emotional Bank.

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HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE?

Kabir once said:
"When i was BORN on this planet I came crying and the people around me were laughing :
I will make sure I live my life in such a way that, when I DIE I will go laughing and the people
around me will keep crying ! "
Amazing right? Every time I read this I stop for a second and think, Did I make an impact such that this scenario will happen in my life too?
To make this scenario to happen, we have to EARN the following with hard-work :
#1 Earn a place in the hearts of the people around you.
#2 Earn a balance between QUALITY of LIFE and STANDARD of LIFE.
#3 Earn a PERSONALITY.
#4 Stay in the memory of people in a positive way.
#5 And finally have a sense of responsibility to ensure that it was worth giving me(the viewer) a HUMAN LIFE.

My uncle who is in the army always tells me, "YOU ARE REMEMBERED ONLY FOR WHAT YOU GIVE TO THE WORLD AND NOT FOR WHAT YOU CONSUME FORM IT".
So try to give the world a BETTER, PRODUCTIVE and REMEMBER-ABLE "YOU".

Also live your life to the fullest don't regret about the past, nor worry about the future live in the "NOW", but also keep in mind that there is a "NOW" tomorrow also which should be lived to the fullest with no regrets.
Live life in such a way that every second is an amazing memory and people will remember it in a positive way.

And finally:
"I should live my life in such a way that,
 not only people but also GOD should shed tears when I die !" - Prajith R Yadav.

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