Relationship???

àRelationship in general means the way in which two or more people are connected, or the state of being connected.

àRelationships should never be a constant battle, but it should always be a consistent effort.

àA relationship is like a HOUSE. When a light bulb burns out in that house you don’t go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.

The light bulbs are the problems you face in a relationship and when you solve them, the house is a better place to live in.

àLove must fuel everything you do in your relationship.

àThe key points which stabilize a relationship are:

     #1 Good Communication.

     #2 Caring and sensitivity to each other.

     #3 Both of them are willing to admit mistakes.

     #4 See the relationship as an opportunity to give (EMOTIONAL DEPOSIT).

     #5 Both of them support each other.

     #6 Both of them are open to each other.

àDo not treat the other person in the relationship as a possession. Respect their individuality; give them space to grow and transform. Also encourage their own self-discovery.

àHaving a relationship with someone is having an “EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT” with them.

So, every relationship in life which you (the viewer) enjoy, there are constant transactions-(Deposits and Withdrawals) in terms of “EMOTION”.

The Emotions that can be deposited are – Love, Care, Empathy, Faith, Freedom, Gratitude, Hope, Joy and Respect.

Your responsibility is to ensure that- your Deposits are more than your withdrawals at all times.

The negative EMOTIONS which should NEVER be used in the EMOTIONAL BANK are:

Anger, Pride, Apathy, Conceit, Despair, Doubt, Envy, Greed and Hate.

These Emotions are huge WITHDRAWALS from the Emotional Bank.

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I hope this post was helpful.

HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE?

Kabir once said:
"When i was BORN on this planet I came crying and the people around me were laughing :
I will make sure I live my life in such a way that, when I DIE I will go laughing and the people
around me will keep crying ! "
Amazing right? Every time I read this I stop for a second and think, Did I make an impact such that this scenario will happen in my life too?
To make this scenario to happen, we have to EARN the following with hard-work :
#1 Earn a place in the hearts of the people around you.
#2 Earn a balance between QUALITY of LIFE and STANDARD of LIFE.
#3 Earn a PERSONALITY.
#4 Stay in the memory of people in a positive way.
#5 And finally have a sense of responsibility to ensure that it was worth giving me(the viewer) a HUMAN LIFE.

My uncle who is in the army always tells me, "YOU ARE REMEMBERED ONLY FOR WHAT YOU GIVE TO THE WORLD AND NOT FOR WHAT YOU CONSUME FORM IT".
So try to give the world a BETTER, PRODUCTIVE and REMEMBER-ABLE "YOU".

Also live your life to the fullest don't regret about the past, nor worry about the future live in the "NOW", but also keep in mind that there is a "NOW" tomorrow also which should be lived to the fullest with no regrets.
Live life in such a way that every second is an amazing memory and people will remember it in a positive way.

And finally:
"I should live my life in such a way that,
 not only people but also GOD should shed tears when I die !" - Prajith R Yadav.

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THE NEGATIVE ATTITUDES IN A PERSON PART 3 (LIVING WITH PROBLEMS)

#3 Living With Problems

Again we are Humans and we have negative attitudes which we tend to ignore.
In this post I will be discussing about the third most popular negative attitude which we all have but never realize - "LIVING WITH PROBLEMS".By PROBLEMS I mean "PROBLEMS IN OUR MIND".
Living With Problems means having mental blockage ie. being stuck in a particular "MOMENT" mentally or emotionally. 
For example:
A normal average student who consistently performed in academics suddenly becomes a failure (here- by normal average student, I mean- a student who is self disciplined, wants to attain knowledge and knows his goals and does not go off track). So what was the reason for his sudden failure??? Well if this question is asked to a psychologist his/her immediate answer would be "MENTAL BLOCKAGE". If he has gone off track and selected a wrong path - then that is a whole other topic.

TYPES OF PROBLEMS:

MENTAL BLOCKAGE means - not being able to come out of a particular incident mentally. The reason this mainly happens to some of us is that :
+ We are not ready to accept the fact that the incident happened, and that it is a part of our life now and we have to live with it.
+ We waste time in "Thinking" why did the incident happen, blaming god sometimes and even find ways to blame our self for it.
+ We (sometimes) are not in the company of a loved one who can help, by listening to our feelings.
Even the tiny problems have a great impact on our mind.

REGRETTING: - Is a huge problem.
Regretting about the past "Today" will make you regret in the Future about Regretting and wasting your time that "Today". Hence don't waste your time regretting but try to make every second a memory which, (after years) you will think about and smile.

Solution:
The main solution for "LIVING WITH PROBLEMS" is - Try to express your problem to a close one who can actually give you a solution.
Here I tried to bring out main reasons as to why people live with problems and the reasons why they are not able to find solutions and also provided some solutions.
The only way one can find a way out of a mental blockage is EXPRESS YOUR PROBLEMS to a close one and the moment you tell it to a close one HALF of the mental blockage is gone!!! 

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I hope this post was helpful.

BEAUTY???

Beauty is not long hair, skinny legs, tanned skin or perfect teeth.

Beauty is the face of who cried and now smiles, 

Beauty is the scar on your knee since you fell when you were a kid,

Beauty is the circles when love doesn't let you sleep,

Beauty is the expression on the face when the alarm rings in the morning,

Beauty is the melted make-up when you have a shower,

Beauty is the laughter when you make a joke and you're the only one who can understand,

Beauty is meeting his/her gaze and skipping a beat,

Beauty is your gaze when you see him/her,

Beauty is when you cry for all your paranoias,

Beauty is THE LINES MARKED BY TIME.

BEAUTY IS WHAT WE FEEL IN THE INSIDE WHICH ALSO SHOWS OUTSIDE US.

BEAUTY IS THE MARKS LIFE LEAVES ON US.

BEAUTY IS LETTING YOURSELF LIVE !!!

This is an important post as one of my viewers asked me to give my views about 

BEAUTY well this was told by an actor but it truly touched my heart.

What I would mainly like to tell here in this post is that being physically beautiful 

is not the end of it, we need to be beautiful from the inside.

That is when people actually like us for who we really are and not for what we are trying to be.

I was really happy to see the number of people contacting me. 

I hope this post was helpful.

THE NEGATIVE ATTITUDES IN A PERSON PART 2 (PROCRASTINATION)

#2 Procrastination

Again we are Humans and we have negative attitudes which we tend to ignore.

In this post I will be discussing about the second most popular negative attitude which we all have - "PROCRASTINATION". Procrastination means - the act or habit of postponing, or putting off or delaying, especially something requiring immediate attention - we all do this right?

For example - You need to submit a project on a day which is a month away from now ; 

what we mainly tend to do is waste our time till the last day and then all of a sudden get tensed, frustrated about the project and do something which would take a month's time in a day. And honestly the project will not be up to the mark. 

The reason why we procrastinate:

+ We wanna have fun in the "right now moment" and forget to think about the "future right now moment".

+ We fear FAILURE (Most of the time we do this unconsciously  - Believe Me !!!).

+ Lack of INTEREST in the subject or topic or job.

+ OVERCONFIDENCE - That you can finish the work in the end.

Solutions:

The solution to Procrastination is:

+ Think far.. see if you can really finish the work in the end moment - but belive me you can't (In life you can never predict the future ie.You may suddenly end up with some other commitment).

+ Have confidence in your self that you can do it but not too much.

+ Try to find interesting facts about the subject and try to like it (atleast till your project or commitment is completed).

I hope this post is helpful.

SORRY FOR THE DELAY I HOPE YOU (MY VIEWERS) LIKE THE NEW DESIGN.

I am planning to post one-liners also. (any suggestions please go to the contact part of the website and contact me).

THE NEGATIVE ATTITUDES IN A PERSON PART 1 (STARTING TROUBLE)

We are Humans and hence we have negative attitudes which we tend to ignore. Well I have done some reading and made a note of some of the negative attitudes of a person.
If you (my viewer) find your negative attitude below read the entire point to see the ways with which you can overcome them.
#1 Starting Trouble :

Well everybody has this problem, some overcome it very quickly whereas some never

overcome this problem. The main reason people face this problem is that, they are not

confident with themselves due to many reasons-
+The FEAR that they will be made fun off.
+The SHY feeling.
+The fear of NOT knowing the subject taken into consideration.
+OR some other  confidence KILLING reason.
SOLUTION:
Everybody has their start (in something new) someday right ??? Say for example, I never knew I would start a website about PHILOSOPHY, well here i am !!!!! Taking that LEAP OF FAITH in any subject (Example: Talking to a girl for the first time or Giving your first speech or Running for the very first time in an athletic meet or Riding a bike for the first time or maybe Starting a family) that you can accomplish the task successfully BEFORE YOU START THE TASK IS VERY IMPORTANT.

I hope this post was helpful.

INTRODUCTION

INTRODUCTION:
This is an Introduction, as one of my viewer told me that an Introduction would help:

This website is mainly created to touch every person's heart with PHILOSOPHY and give KEY POINTS for SUCCESS in LIFE.I will post on any topic but if you (my viewers) want me to post about a particular topic you can click on the contact part of my website and then E-Mail me directly from there or even give me a call or message me on my number.

IMPORTANT NOTE:

#I WILL ONLY POST ON FRIDAY'S.

I hope this INTRODUCTION post was helpful.